Letters · Issue 03 · After the Bell

Concerning a Missed Train

Ruthie Lang writes to say she missed the connection on purpose, and would like the record to show it was not drama but dinner.

Ruthie LangExcerpt · 5 min in print3 October 2025

I missed the 18:12 and I would like the record to show that I did it with my eyes open. There was a dinner that would not survive a delay, and a friend who had already laid the forks as if punctuality were a love language. I watched the train leave and felt the small theatrical sadness one is supposed to feel, and then I bought an apple and walked. Please do not print this as a lesson about slowness. It is only a correction. When I wrote last that I was sorry to miss the connection, I was being polite to the idea of the train. I was not sorry. The dinner was ordinary and exact, and the gravy was the right thickness, and I was in the chair I had said I would be in.#

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